{"id":2488,"date":"2024-12-27T21:57:58","date_gmt":"2024-12-27T21:57:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/the-thousand.com\/?p=2488"},"modified":"2024-12-31T20:02:04","modified_gmt":"2024-12-31T20:02:04","slug":"my-altruistic-home-leaving-experience-in-japan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/the-thousand.com\/vn\/my-altruistic-home-leaving-experience-in-japan\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u1ea3m ngh\u0129 l\u1ea7n XGVT \u1edf Nh\u1eadt, 2019"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Ng\u00f4 Th\u1ecb Vi\u00ean – Th\u00e2n Ho\u00e0 Ho\u1eb1ng<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n
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\u0110i xu\u1ea5t gia l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00ec bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh c\u00f2n y\u1ebfu k\u00e9m. N\u0103m 2019 Th\u1ea7y t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c M\u1ea1n \u0110\u00e0 La \u1edf Nh\u1eadt, t\u00f4i c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc v\u00ec th\u1ea5y ngo\u00e0i t\u1ea7m tay c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

On weekends, my husband and I joined a dharma sister in prostrating practice to support her since she was going to become a short-term nun later that year. At first, we only did prostration practice for 30 minutes, gradually increasing to 45 minutes. Once we practiced prostrating for an entire hour and I didn\u2019t even notice that my knees had gotten scraped.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e0 sau l\u1ea7n l\u1ea1y \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean t\u00f4i na\u0309y ra \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh mu\u1ed1n \u0111i xu\u1ea5t gia \u1edf Nh\u1eadt cho m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh. M\u1eb9 t\u00f4i l\u00fac \u1ea5y 86 tu\u1ed5i \u0111ang \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t Nam v\u1edbi m\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ee9a em. T\u1eeb l\u00fac t\u00f4i c\u00f3 ch\u00e1u n\u1ed9i v\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u00edt v\u1ec1 th\u0103m m\u1eb9 t\u00f4i. \u0110\u00fang l\u00e0: n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft chi\u0309 cha\u0309y xu\u1ed1ng ho\u1eb7c n\u01b0\u1edbc s\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 ch\u1ea1y m\u1ed9t chi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

R\u1ed3i t\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edd t\u00f4i c\u00f3 t\u00ean trong danh s\u00e1ch nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i xu\u1ea5t gia. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n l\u00ean m\u00e1y bay qua Nh\u1eadt th\u00ec tin M\u1eb9 t\u00f4i m\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eb7t ch\u00e2n l\u00ean x\u1ee9 Ph\u00f9 Tang. M\u1ed9t \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 m\u00e0 b\u1ea5y l\u00e2u kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc nay \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u00f2a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o T\u0103ng \u0110o\u00e0n \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eadp s\u1ed1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n v\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ee5i tr\u1ea7n gian.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ng\u00e0y t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Th\u1ea7y xu\u1ed1ng t\u00f3c, t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t nh\u1eb9 nh\u00f5m, kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfc nu\u1ed1i g\u00ec c\u1ea3. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t v\u00e0 xung quanh t\u00f4i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4i quen v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng quen, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ea5y g\u00ec c\u1ea3, ch\u1ec9 th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t v\u00f2m tr\u1eddi trong s\u00e1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t. Th\u1ebf m\u1edbi hi\u1ec3u ra r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i xu\u1ea5t gia, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 khoe khoang hay \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00e2m ph\u1ee5c, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang tr\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7m c\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 hay kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i c\u00f2n nh\u1edb ng\u00e0y t\u00f4i c\u00f9ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i tam b\u1ed9 nh\u1ea5t b\u00e1i. 4 gi\u01a1\u0300 s\u00e1ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 r\u1eddi ch\u00f9a, t\u1eadp trung \u01a1\u0309 ch\u00e2n n\u00fai. Tr\u1eddi c\u00f2n t\u1ed1i \u0111en t\u1eeb d\u01b0\u1edbi ch\u00e2n n\u00fai ch\u00fang t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u01b0\u1edbng l\u00ean tr\u00ean. \u0110o\u00e0n ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00ean l\u1eb7ng trong m\u00e0n \u0111en, cu\u0301i \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1eeba \u0111i v\u1eeba l\u1ea1y theo nh\u1ecbp chu\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ea7u. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 xu\u1ea5t m\u1ed3 h\u00f4i nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u01a1\u0300n r\u01a1\u0323n, l\u00e0nh l\u1ea1nh, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ee9ng hai b\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, h\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 c\u00f3 khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t M\u1eb9 t\u00f4i trong \u0111\u00f3. H\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ee9ng nh\u00ecn ch\u00fang t\u00f4i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ebb g\u00ec d\u1eef d\u1eb1n c\u1ea3. T\u00f4i t\u1ef1 n\u00f3i th\u1ea7m: Ma \u0111\u00e2u m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Khi cu\u1ed9c tam b\u1ed9 nh\u1ea5t b\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00e2\u0301m d\u1ee9t tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ec9nh n\u00fai, v\u00e0 \u0111o\u00e0n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i quay \u0111\u1ea7u xu\u1ed1ng n\u00fai v\u1ec1 ch\u00f9a \u0111\u1ec3 \u0103n s\u00e1ng. Kho\u1ea3ng n\u1eeda \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec g\u1eb7p Th\u1ea7y d\u01b0\u0300ng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n. Th\u1ea7y k\u1ec3 Th\u1ea7y g\u1eb7p ma kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea7u. T\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00f3i: con c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y ma nhi\u1ec1u l\u1eafm. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft sao l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i l\u1eb7ng thinh. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd t\u00f4i x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 v\u00ec th\u01b0\u1eddng khi t\u00f4i v\u1eabn n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi: t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a g\u1eb7p ma bao gi\u1edd v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 ma ch\u1ebft, ch\u1ec9 s\u1ee3 ma s\u1ed1ng th\u00f4i. Nh\u01b0ng h\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y ma. L\u00fac ng\u1ed3i vi\u1ebft l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng d\u00f2ng ch\u1eef n\u00e0y t\u00f4i v\u1eabn c\u00f2n c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn c\u00e1i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c h\u01a1i n\u1ed5i da g\u00e0 khi th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng vong linh \u0111\u1ee9ng b\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ed1i om.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00fac \u1edf Nh\u1eadt, nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y t\u1eadp trung x\u1ebfp h\u00e0ng ch\u1edd di chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ed7 h\u1ecdc, t\u00f4i vui th\u00edch nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac \u0111\u1ee9ng x\u1ebfp h\u00e0ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i xu\u1ea5t gia nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n th\u00ec \u0111\u1ea3o m\u1eaft t\u00ecm ng\u01b0\u1eddi quen, co\u0300n ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u th\u00ec \u0111\u1ee9ng y\u00ean tr\u1ea7m ng\u00e2m, b\u1ee1 ng\u1ee1. Nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3nh \u1ea5y l\u00e0m cho t\u00f4i g\u1ee3i nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i th\u1eddi c\u00f2n \u0111i h\u1ecdc. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi v\u00e0o l\u1edbp ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee9ng x\u1ebfp h\u00e0ng \u0111i\u1ec3m danh, ho\u1eb7c l\u00fac \u0111i ph\u1ea3i h\u00e0ng \u0111\u00f4i, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi h\u00e0ng, ho\u1eb7c b\u1ecb ki\u1ec3m \u0111i\u1ec3m ch\u1ec9nh t\u1ec1 l\u1ea1i y ph\u1ee5c, vv v\u00e0 vv.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ef1 M\u1ea1n \u0110\u00e0 La v\u1ec1 chia s\u1ebb, nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. V\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng t\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t v\u00e0 ng\u1ed3i trong M\u1ea1n \u0110\u00e0 La. Gi\u1edd ph\u00fat l\u00e0m l\u1ec5 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang \u1edf th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi cao si\u00eau n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Khi Th\u1ea7y c\u1ea5t gi\u1ecdng h\u00e1t b\u00e0i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft, t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft t\u00f4i tu\u00f4n tr\u00e0o n\u1ee9c n\u1edf. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft v\u00ec sao t\u00f4i kh\u00f3c. Kh\u00f3c v\u00ec \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t hay t\u00f4i kh\u00f3c v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng g\u1ea7n M\u1eb9 t\u00f4i trong gi\u1edd ph\u00fat ch\u00f3t, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 l\u1ebd M\u1eb9 t\u00f4i c\u0169ng th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u cho l\u00f2ng t\u00f4i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cho t\u1edbi b\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i v\u1eabn c\u00f2n lu\u00f4n tri \u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111o\u00e0n lu\u00f4n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, c\u1ed5 \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1ecdi m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1o. Tri \u00e2n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong T\u0103ng \u0110o\u00e0n y\u1ec3m tr\u1ee3, nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf, b\u1ed5 sung, v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u00f4ng x\u00e3 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 hy sinh s\u1ed1 ti\u1ec1n \u0111i l\u00e0m ph\u1ee5 tr\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 ti\u0323nh t\u00e0i trong chuy\u1ebfn \u0111i xu\u1ea5t gia \u1edf Nh\u1eadt v\u1eeba qua.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2y v\u1ec1 sau th\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 v\u1eefng l\u00f2ng tin v\u1edbi t\u00e2m ni\u1ec7m: - Gi\u1eef Gi\u1edbi l\u00e0m Th\u1ea7y\n-\u00c1p d\u1ee5ng gi\u00e1o ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i, s\u1eeda m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 chuy\u1ec3n ho\u0301a.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ng\u00f4 Th\u1ecb Vi\u00ean<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Leaving home to become a temporary nun is a topic I dare not think about because I know my concentration is still weak. In 2019, Master Hang Truong held the Mandala in Japan, quite beyond my reach and dream. On weekends, my husband and I joined a dharma sister in prostrating practice to support her […]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2495,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2488","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-news"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/the-thousand.com\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2488","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/the-thousand.com\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/the-thousand.com\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/the-thousand.com\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/the-thousand.com\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2488"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/the-thousand.com\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2488\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2612,"href":"https:\/\/the-thousand.com\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2488\/revisions\/2612"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/the-thousand.com\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2495"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/the-thousand.com\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2488"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/the-thousand.com\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2488"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/the-thousand.com\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2488"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}