{"id":2714,"date":"2025-07-24T23:41:12","date_gmt":"2025-07-24T23:41:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/the-thousand.com\/?p=2714"},"modified":"2025-07-25T08:01:05","modified_gmt":"2025-07-25T08:01:05","slug":"letting-go-through-a-strand-of-hair","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/the-thousand.com\/vn\/letting-go-through-a-strand-of-hair\/","title":{"rendered":"Ch\u1eef Bu\u00f4ng T\u1eeb M\u1ed9t M\u00e1i T\u00f3c"},"content":{"rendered":"

Th\u00fay V\u00f5 \/ Th\u00e2n Khai Th\u00ed Nh\u1eadm<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ngay ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean khi nghe c\u00e1c anh ch\u1ecb trong h\u1ed9i TBPS gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u v\u1ec1 ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh Xu\u1ea5t Gia V\u1ecb Tha (XGVT), t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i m\u00e0 cho c\u00e1c anh ch\u1ecb bi\u1ebft ngay \u00fd mu\u1ed1n tham gia ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00fang v\u1eady, v\u00ec \u00fd ngh\u0129 \u0111i xu\u1ea5t gia \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 trong t\u00f4i t\u1eeb bao nhi\u00eau n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 cho d\u00f9 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh, tham d\u1ef1 XGVT l\u00e0 t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i xu\u1ed1ng t\u00f3c. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u00e1ng 7 n\u0103m 2024. Cho \u0111\u1ebfn kho\u1ea3ng th\u00e1ng 10, ban t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c m\u1edbi g\u1edfi th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u vi\u1ec7c ghi danh tham d\u1ef1. T\u00f4i ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m th\u1ee7 t\u1ee5c ghi danh, n\u1ed9p l\u1ec7 ph\u00ed r\u1ed3i l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 xin ngh\u1ec9 ph\u00e9p, ki\u1ebfm ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00f4ng con, \u0111\u1eb7t mua \u00e1o tr\u00e0ng, \u00e1o gi\u1edbi ch\u1ec9 trong v\u00f2ng 1 \u0111\u1ebfn 2 tu\u1ea7n. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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T\u00f4i c\u00f3 lo l\u1eafng kh\u00f4ng? C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0: C\u00f3. \u0110i\u1ec1u lo l\u1eafng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0 li\u1ec7u t\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 \u201ctr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed9\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i \u201ctu\u201d ch\u01b0a khi m\u00e0 l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c g\u00ec v\u1ec1 Ph\u1eadt ph\u00e1p, ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft g\u00ec v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1o ph\u00e1p Hoa Nghi\u00eam c\u1ee7a Th\u1ea7y. \u0110i\u1ec1u lo ng\u1ea1i th\u1ee9 nh\u00ec : Sau khi c\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ea7u r\u1ed3i, tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i \u0111i l\u00e0m, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1edbi c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e2y? Ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed9i n\u00f3n hay \u0111\u1ed9i t\u00f3c gi\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng? C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y c\u1ee9 l\u1ea9n qu\u1ea9n trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i nhi\u1ec1u ng\u00e0y th\u00e1ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e1i t\u00f3c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. B\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, t\u00f4i ch\u0103m s\u00f3c t\u00f3c m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch s\u1ea5y t\u00f3c v\u00ec s\u1ee3 l\u00e0m t\u00f3c h\u01b0. R\u1ed3i t\u00f4i c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t th\u00edch coi nh\u1eefng video h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn c\u00e1ch b\u1edbi t\u00f3c, v\u00e0 th\u00edch m\u00e2n m\u00ea t\u00f3c m\u00ecnh khi c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian. Nh\u01b0ng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ea7u, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 s\u1ebd \u201cm\u1ea5t t\u00f3c\u201d v\u00ec t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft t\u00f3c s\u1ebd m\u1ecdc tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i. M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y tr\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y \u0111i xu\u1ea5t gia, t\u00f4i soi g\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd ra sao sau ng\u00e0y tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 l\u1ea1i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. V\u00e0 n\u00f3 di\u1ec5n ra trong h\u01a1n 6 th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb tinh th\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1eady m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y Th\u1ea7y xu\u1ed1ng t\u00f3c cho t\u00f4i xong, r\u1ed3i nh\u1eadp tr\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 v\u00e0o ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh XGVT, s\u1ed1ng gi\u1eefa t\u0103ng \u0111o\u00e0n to\u00e0n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00f3c nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i. Ai c\u0169ng n\u00f3i nh\u00ecn v\u00e0 khen t\u00f4i l\u00e0 \u201cs\u00e1ng s\u1ee7a\u201d v\u00e0 \u201c\u0111\u1eb9p\u201d h\u01a1n khi c\u00f2n c\u00f3 t\u00f3c, v\u1eady m\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m nh\u00ecn th\u1eb3ng m\u00ecnh trong g\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1edbi m\u1ea5y ng\u00e0y sau \u0111\u00f3. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m soi g\u01b0\u01a1ng ngay c\u1ea3 khi t\u1ef1 c\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef cho \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cl\u00e1ng o\u201d. H\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y th\u1ee9 5, t\u00f4i m\u1edbi d\u00e1m \u201cl\u00e9n\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 soi g\u01b0\u01a1ng. Nh\u00ecn m\u00ecnh trong g\u01b0\u01a1ng, t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh gi\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh gi\u1ed1ng \u201cd\u00e2n anh ch\u1ecb\u201d. T\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng r\u1ea5t ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p. Tuy v\u1eady, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd t\u00f4i h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn v\u1ec1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111i xu\u1ea5t gia; ngay c\u1ea3 khi quay tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng \u201ckh\u00f4ng th\u00e8m\u201d \u0111\u1ed9i t\u00f3c gi\u1ea3 khi ra \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng hay \u0111i l\u00e0m. T\u00f4i c\u01b0\u1eddi, ho\u1eb7c c\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7m khi th\u1ea5y m\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9, ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00ecn t\u00f4i l\u1ea1 l\u1eabm v\u00e0 v\u1edbi d\u1ea5u ch\u1ea5m h\u1ecfi trong \u00e1nh m\u1eaft. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u00e2u lo v\u1ec1 m\u00e1i t\u00f3c, v\u1ec1 khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y h\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 r\u01a1i r\u1ee5ng theo nh\u1eefng l\u1ecdn t\u00f3c Th\u1ea7y c\u1eaft b\u1ecf cho t\u00f4i ng\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi l\u00ean tr\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u0110i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sau khi c\u1eaft \u0111i m\u00e1i t\u00f3c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0: Nh\u1eb9 nh\u00f5m. V\u00e0 th\u1ea5m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1eef \u201cBu\u00f4ng\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111i tu v\u00e0 c\u1ea1o t\u00f3c, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc ch\u1eef \u201c Bu\u00f4ng B\u1ecf\u201d. S\u00e1u th\u00e1ng tr\u1eddi chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb, v\u1eady m\u00e0 t\u00f4i v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng trong l\u00f2ng. C\u00e1i \u201cshock\u201d( ho\u1ea3ng lo\u1ea1n) th\u1eadt s\u1ef1. D\u00f9 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd c\u00e1i \u201cshock\u201d \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 qua, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd t\u00f4i qu\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u00f3. T\u00f4i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc v\u00f4 gi\u00e1: ch\u1eef \u201cBu\u00f4ng\u201d kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 l\u00e0m. Cho d\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00e1i t\u00f3c m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 l\u1ea1i, v\u1eady m\u00e0 v\u1eabn b\u1ecb shock. V\u1eady c\u00e1i ng\u00e0y m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh l\u00eca xa c\u00f5i \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y, m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng trong c\u01a1n \u201c shock\u201d (ho\u1ea3ng lo\u1ea1n) m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t bi\u1ebft bao nhi\u00eau?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00ean m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, t\u00f4i c\u00e0ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng tu h\u1ecdc, \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng bu\u00f4ng.
H\u1ecdc bao l\u00e2u, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft.
H\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft
Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c h\u1ecdc n\u1eefa, h\u1ecdc m\u00e3i\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u01a1n th\u1ebf n\u1eefa:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tu hay kh\u00f4ng tu.
Tu nhi\u1ec1u hay tu \u00edt.
C\u00f3 t\u00f3c hay kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00f3c.
T\u00f3c d\u00e0i hay t\u00f3c ng\u1eafn.
\u0110\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t thi\u00eang li\u00eang.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh Sa Di Ni trong v\u00f2ng m\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t thi\u00eang li\u00eang \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i. M\u00e1i t\u00f3c c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t thi\u00eang li\u00eang \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i.Bu\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t thi\u00eang li\u00eang \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i. Nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1eddi v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o sau ng\u00e0y t\u00f4i xu\u1ea5t gia c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed7i thi\u00eang li\u00eang \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecfi, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u0111i XG n\u1eefa kh\u00f4ng? T\u00f4i th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft. Trong th\u00e2m t\u00e2m t\u00f4i, t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c , ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng r\u00f5 khi n\u00e0o. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd, b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o t\u00f4i s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t bi\u1ebft \u01a1n n\u1ebfu ai g\u1eb7p t\u00f4i, xin h\u00e3y gi\u00fap t\u00f4i gi\u1eef nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang \u0111\u00f3.
M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi t\u00f4i, \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean.
T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n gi\u1eef v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i Thi\u1ec7n Duy\u00ean.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Th\u00fay V\u00f5 \/ Th\u00e2n Khai Th\u00ed Nh\u1eadm When I first heard the dharma friends from CSS SJ introduced the Altruistic Home Leaving Program (XGVT), I let them know right  away that I wanted to join, because the thought of getting ordained had planted a seed in me for many years. Even when they emphasized that […]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":2718,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[19,18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2714","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blogging","category-testimony"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/the-thousand.com\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2714","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/the-thousand.com\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/the-thousand.com\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/the-thousand.com\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/the-thousand.com\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2714"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/the-thousand.com\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2714\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2725,"href":"https:\/\/the-thousand.com\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2714\/revisions\/2725"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/the-thousand.com\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2718"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/the-thousand.com\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2714"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/the-thousand.com\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2714"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/the-thousand.com\/vn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2714"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}